Wondering how to get motivated to lose weight? If you've jumped on -
and off - the diet bandwagon multiple times, you're probably pretty
demotivated and tired.
It's frustrating when something doesn't
work - especially something as personal as weight loss. There's nothing
more heartbreaking than doing everything you know that is "right" and
then seeing no progress on the scale.
But it doesn't have to be that way.
If you're stuck in a weight loss rut - or you just need some major weight loss motivation, here are 3 simple strategies for you.
Try one or try all three to get jumpstarted towards your goals for the new year:
#1. Try Something Completely New
One of the big mistakes people make when they try yet-another-weight-loss plan is that they look at their past history.
Maybe
they lost weight with a certain diet once - so they go back to it (even
though the other 3 times they tried it, it didn't work). After all,
it's familiar. You know how it works - and it did work for you, once.
But
that is one of the most demotivating things you can do. There's nothing
exciting in going back to old ways. It's actually pretty depressing if
you think about it.
It's like going back to an old boyfriend - one
that you left several times before. It' may be safe - but it's not
exciting at all - and then you wonder why you're just not motivated to
lose weight.
Solution? Try something completely new. Whether it's a
new meal delivery service, a brand new diet you've never heard of
before or just a new way to exercise - do something completely different
and out of the box.
We're all motivated by new things - new
places to vacation, new visits, new significant others, even a new paint
color for the bedroom. It's the same with dieting as well.
So forget the old diets and go for a completely different or new weight loss plan you've never tried before.
#2. Take Action
If
you've ever read a Tony Robbins book - the master of motivation -
you'll know that the one major thing he advocates is taking massive
action towards your goals.
By taking action, you are moving
forward and the motivation will suddenly start to build inside of you.
You've probably already experienced this with other things - like a work
project or even exercise.
Before you start, you really don't feel
like doing anything. But once you push yourself to take the first step,
then another, then another - you start to actually get excited about
where you're going. You start to feel motivated and much better about
yourself. You start to get excited.
So in keeping with the first idea above: find something you've never tried before and then start taking action TODAY towards it.
Whatever
that means for you - it could be ordering that new diet book, starting a
diet journal, buying that new piece of calorie-burning fitness
equipment, whatever. Just start taking action and the weight loss
motivation will come with those first steps.
#3. Resolve To Be Your Own Biggest Fan
We are absolutely the WORST at this. In fact we do the opposite. We look in the mirror and put ourselves down.
We
think "there's no point in trying, I can't lose weight". It's like we
don't need anyone to demotivate us - we are doing it ourselves - all the
time.
Being down on yourself is the worst thing you can do - and it completely defeats you before you begin.
But
resolving to be your own biggest fan actually revs up the weight loss
motivation. When you talk to yourself with encouragement and positive
self-love, you start to open up and think "Maybe it's possible. I can do
this."
Then follow this up with action (remember #2 above?) What are these actions that say you are your own biggest fan?
Well,
it really depends on you. For example, it might mean wearing clothes
that fit you well when going out. So you don't spend the whole night in
too-tight clothes that make you self-conscious (and want to eat for
comfort).
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