How to Have Your Cake and Your Skinny Jeans Too: Stop Binge Eating,
Overeating and Dieting For Good Get the Naturally Thin Body You Crave
From the Inside Out (Binge Eating Solution) by Josie Spinardi is an
incredibly accessibly written book with clear practical strategies and
sound evidence-based approaches.
Concept
Your body is
programmed to maintain a naturally thin weight. You don't need to know
your ideal weight or calorie balance. More calorically dense foods and
slower metabolism just means you get full sooner and stay full longer.
Diets
only address the symptom of extra weight. "Overeating or binge eating
is in fact a very powerfully anchored conditioned (learned) response to
both dieting (food restriction) and a shortage of skills to navigate
certain distressing emotional states."
Most dieters get stuck in
"The Dieting Trangle of Despair," a cycle of dieting, bingeing, beating
self up, and then dieting again... only to binge again all over in more
and more extreme ways. Studies like the Ancel Keys show "dieting leads
to food obsession, emotional distress, and - wait for it - binge
eating."
Recommendations
Eat like a naturally thin person.
Enjoy satisfying portions of tasty normal foods without worrying,
without dieting to try to compensate. If you eat so much you feel
uncomfortable, just make a note it doesn't feel good to be too full.
Eliminate the "learned habit of overriding your body's internal signals for hunger and fullness."
Use Root Cause Analysis to identify the real reason for Non Hunger Eating:
a)
Gasping for Food violently out-of-control in response to deprivation,
bingeing on banned foods. By eating only what's right for you according
to physical and psychological needs, you can be confident in any
situation instead of being ruled by food obsession, deprivation, or
"kryptonite."
b) Eating Cuz You Ate breaking a diet rule. Tuning into internal forces helps.
The Mean Girl Munchies "presses mute" on critical self-awareness
with rapid-fire bites of crunchy food regardless of taste. Meditation is
a healthier approach to focusing in on a single something.
c)
Licking Your Wounds involves avoiding and soothing with slow, sweet,
creamy indulgence in learned helplessness. People who lack the skill to
engage in task-oriented coping are more likely to emotionally eat.
Instead, act directly to resolve, mitigate, or eliminate stressors. Try
positive psychology with an empowered paradigm.
d) Recreational
Eating is just a response to boredom or procrastination, particularly in
times of transition like coming come from work. For a more even balance
of things you want to do and things you have to do, sprinkle fun
activities throughout your schedule. Give yourself permission; see the
value; enjoy your life.
If you decide to eat before you're
physically hungry, enjoy some of what you really want and then move on.
"This is not the eat-when-you're-hungry-and-stop-when-you're-full diet."
This is not about rules; it is general guidelines to make you feel good
- like resting when you're tired.
Strategies
1. Eat when
you feel physically hungry. "Preventative eating" doesn't work.
"Physical hunger is a gentle, hollow, warm sensation in your stomach."
You gradually start to become more sensitive to food cues. "You feel
really light, active, and energized." Hunger growls are high in the
stomach, not below the navel, which is the sound of digestion. Skip
sugared beverages between hungers until you can recognize hunger
signals. Don't stress if you can't eat immediately - your body will use
its own fuel - but don't make a habit of going hungry too long because
you might get a headache, irritability, and Gasping for Food.
2.
Eat what you really, really want to be psychologically satisfied.You'll
likely at first indulge in the foods you've been restricting then it
will transition to consistently healthier eating. "Completely release
the brake" and "move all foods into the No-Guilt category." Instead
categorize by what you like and how it makes you feel. Your body is
designed to desire a variety of foods so make small amounts available
(out of sight) and accessible.
3. Sit down, be present, and
thoroughly enjoy what you're eating. Satisfaction comes from
environment, freedom, perceived portions, etc. Take a substantial
portion and commit to what you're eating. Sit and eat in designated
eating zones. Be present to enjoy eating and eliminate conditioned
triggers and escape of self-awareness. "Construct and savor the perfect
bite - every time." If eating with others, enjoy food and conversation
separately.
4. Stop eating when you feel comfortably satisfied.
The first signal you're nearing fullness is a slight dip in taste. Try
taking a 5-minute break after eating half of current portions as an
experiment. Leave a quality bite of food on the plate to signal
abundance and empowerment. Ask yourself if the next bite will make you
feel better or worse. Create an end-of-meal routine like brushing teeth,
washing dishes, or walking 10 minutes. Plan for post-meal pleasure like
only allowing a TV show after dinner.
5. Check in. Notice how the
food makes you feel. Pure motivational states come from consistent
feeling states, i.e. pleasure both now and later. Conflicted states
require willpower, so build "wantpower" by transforming Shoulds into
Want To's and the Shouldn'ts into Won't's. Notice discomfort after
unhealthy foods for tangible memories to change their motivational pull.
Check in 30 minutes, an hour, three hours, and again up to five hours
after eating rating energy, hunger, mood, concentration, and other
factors like digestion.
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